The best interest of my children?In the 1980’s laws were put into place to protect women and children from abusers. However, now the laws that once were instituted for the purpose of protecting women and children have morphed into a giant loophole to allow fraud and gross abuse of power.These laws made no provision for police or retired officers spouses, who have been victimized by some form of abuse. Domestic abuse against spouses of members of law enforcement has been largely ignored and has radically increased.
Victims fear calling the police, because they know the case will be handled by officers who are friends or families of their abuser. Victims fear that once the responding officer finds out the abuser was or is a fellow officer will side with their abuser. An incident happened between my husband and I, where I did not call the police because of the previously mentioned reasons. This loophole in the law has allowed my vindictive husband to manipulated the system and shifted the blame on me.
He made false reports, and accused me of domestic violence and endangering the welfare of my children.The father’s hatred for me is far more powerful than the love for our children. This hatred is spiraling out of control in court, and I have been brought up against false allegations of abuse and losing my children. I understand courts are overburdened and my children’s father is hell-bent on making sure that I never have a relationship with my children. THIS in itself is child abuse of the most tragic form. Even more tragically, the court system is helping this to happen and soon we will be a nation at the mercy of corrupted cops. Closing off avenues of love and support available to the children from their mother and her family is cruel and selfish.
He did not only manipulated the system, but my children as well by putting up barriers and using them as pawns in his selfish game of revenge violated my children’s trust in a most cruel manner. Plain and simple, this man that once swore to protect and love his children alienated and kidnapped my children, and is stealing my children’s soul. Therefore, he and those around him are committing child cruelty and abuse.
The bottom line is, he has no reason to justify ending my children having contact with me. The obvious intention is to drive a wedge between my children and I in hopes the children will continue to find fault and begin to hate me exacerbates emotional abuse and there are catastrophic long-term ill effects that will likely afflict the children.So tell me please, who defines just what really is in the best interest of the children?The court judges who is separating them from a mother who wanted nothing more than share parental rights?Retired or active officers who are experts in manipulating the system and filing bogus domestic abuse orders and ruin a woman emotionally and financially (and his lawyers know thisyet they continue to humor him because “that is his right”)?Please tell me, who really has the best interest of the children in mind?