Many limiting beliefs originate inearly childhood and live with us for the rest of ourlives.
Our brain makes certain beliefs from the surrounding and helps us incertain situations. Sometimes it helps but sometimes it doesn’t serve. What are limited beliefs? Sometimes you see reality different thanothers, because you have different beliefs. The same situation can beperceived by people in different ways. That is why what you find funny,other not. We form beliefs because they simplifyour lives. If you, for example, touched a hot iron and received a burn,the next time you do not do it.
You will not be for one simple reason -you are convinced that this will lead to a burn. This is an example of apositive belief that simplifies your life and protects you.A simple and, unfortunately, typicalexample – a person who has received negative experience in personalrelationships, transfers negative perception to all potential partners. Hebegins to believe that all men / women are the same. This belief does notallow him to see men / women who do not fit into the established belief system.Many people mistakenly perceive theworld around them.
And they think that they see the realworld. Nevertheless, limiting beliefs set the picture of the world in sucha way that they believe it. And it is very difficult for such people tounderstand that this life is not real. How to get rid of the limited beliefs?Write down the negative beliefs like ‘Iam not smart’; ‘I can’t do this’ on a paper and think about it. Change theperception about yourself.
Try to figure what is really true and best for you. Forexample, your family thinks that you are a good singer and you think that youare not and there is no positive outcomes then believe it is limited belief. Now you must realize that you are no longer a child, and you havefree choice. You can choose whether to retain such beliefs or liquidatethem, get rid of them. It depends on you.Just tell yourself that you want to get rid of thisbelief.
And start looking for evidence that a particular limiting beliefis not true.In addition, you must begin to form a belief contrary to yourlimiting belief.For example, if you are used to thinking “It’s impossible forme to make a lot of money”, think “I believe that I can make bigmoney”. And whenever you earn money (and this, of course, happens),make sure that this is a confirmation of your positive belief.You have complete freedom to choose how you want to live.
Youcan form your own psychology of success . Andyou can choose your own beliefs and behaviors. When you take fullresponsibility for your life, do not feel indignation towards people who havegiven you negative beliefs, your limiting beliefs will dissolve. All youhave to do is form faith in the opposite beliefs, as well as look for their manifestationsin life.